Why We're Here

OhAnswers

Open & Honest Answers for your Journey

Vision

We dream of a world where every person has a sex life that brings them joy and satisfaction.
A world where sexual enjoyment is a unique and glorious journey that changes, develops, and improves over a lifetime; bringing pleasure and play to an overall happy life.

Our Values:

Pleasure in Life

With so much “hustle-culture” and push for productivity, we are often missing the fun & pleasure in life.
Making pleasure a priority means you can do all those other things with a smile on your face.

Move Away from Shame

Much of our current culture portrays sex as shameful. Evidence of this include:

Talking openly about sex is looked down upon or avoided
Words that are used to describe sex are “dirty, naughty, filthy, and nasty”
Severe violence and murder in media is common, but exposed body parts are considered unacceptable

Be Your Unique Self

We believe in expressing yourself authentically, appreciating uniqueness, and uplifting others. If you come with kindness, you are welcome here.

Keep scrolling to see more about our:

Ouch/ Thank You policy
Power of Positionality policy
Don’t Yuck my Yum policy

Ouch/Thank You Policy

We aim to be inclusive and uplifting here at ohanswers but sometimes things are said that don't feel that way. That's why we have Ouch/Thank You buttons available for you to submit any comments that feel prejudice, demeaning, derogatory, or otherwise deflating of a group or individual.

See Example

OhLearn Presenter:
“Do you all know Punky Bruster? Ah well, I’m dating myself, I’m getting old and crusty”

User fills out an Ouch/Thank You submission for Ageist comment

OhLearn Presenter: “Thank You for your submission about my comment. I can see how that wasn’t inclusive of our whole population. I could have asked if you knew about Punky Bruster without mentioning anything about aging and gone on to discuss how it was relevant.”

Power of Positonality

Our positionalities are the lens through which we see the world. They can help and hinder us. Being aware of our positionalities helps us to be respectful of diversity, increase connection through similar experiences, and promote a world of inclusion.
Our positionality may include positions of pride, belonging, ability or disability, minority-status, community, etc.

See Examples

Examples:

BIPOC, two-spirit, non-binary, Assigned Female at Birth (AFAB) and female indentifying, neurodivergent, financially secure, raised in poverty, college educated, community leader in abortion advocacy, impaired with chronic pain due to fibromyalgia, proud father of 4 teenagers, adoptive parent, raised in the foster system, sober for 10 years, sandwich individual caring for elderly parents and children, type 1 diabetic, entrepreneur, history of homelessness, former veteran, practicing buddist, Etc.

These are just a few examples and not an exhaustive list. Also be aware that some Guides may not wish to share all of their positionalities and we support their privacy

Don't Yuck my Yum

Whether lemons are your thing, not your thing, or could be your thing with the right person... it's all good!

Let's support each other by being nice about whatever type of fruit you want in your sexuality salad